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By: David

David — Tue, 28 May 2013 14:35:09 +0000

As I read Bud’s statements, I see one that is at least trying to disguise the facts and is living in denial. He does not want to lay the blame where the blame belongs. The root of the matter is that never married women are a real problem in America.Since most of those unmarried women with children come from 2 parent homes; how did they ever become what they are today?

The facts are it is all rebelion of the girls and the young men. Where did this rebellion come from? PUBLIC (GOVERNMENT) SCHOOLS.

The atheist and other anti-Americans have absconded with America’s public schools. They call the horrible teachers (mostly women) Change agents.

Hillary Clinton used the term “women are agents of change.’ Change: from what to what?
Change. Do we need it? Change, is it good?
The answer to both is a resounding no!

When something is running well do we repair it? What repairs are needed for what is running well? The fact is that the horrible people of the Obama and Hillary ilk want change from good to evil. They are not liberals. The Obama Administration people are leftists. They are progressives (Communists).The change they want is for the worst of society to overule the best of society. The method is to divide the people among themselves. This they have done very artfully.

Whose fault is it? It is tha fault of all shortsighted people that aid and abett in destroying family in America and asking “Why and Where did Dick and Jane go bad?”

Look in the mirror folks. It is your own wilful neglegence of your own children that has brought all this about.

Cure:

Have no sexual intercourse outside of marriage.
If he/she is good enough to bed then he/she is good enough to wed. If you would not marry him/her then have nothing to do with him/her.

Parents, take your children out of the public schools and homeschool them. Be involved with all facets of the education of your children. Be good parents by being involved totally in the lives of your children. Let no one near any of your children alone that is not a direct family member. Forget the two income home. The wife should stay home with the children, while the husband works to support and provide for his family. No adultery allowed.
Married mothers – the only true mothers- should have groups that promote marriage and family and allow no one, but no one, in such groups that is not a married woman with children. Allow no advice from outsiders and keep social services away and at bay. Keep the government out of your homes and away from your children.

Government:

Government can be easily likened to Satan. Maybe you are an atheist; So what? Still, liken government to Satan. We all know what Satan is whether we believce he exists or not is irrelevant. Government does exist and it is satanic. Government, like satan is always looking for a foothold into your families and homes for the exact purpose of destroying them. The Government school system is a vehicle used by government to destroy the nuclear, wholesome family and has had huge sussess in it. Stay away from Governmment, Period.,

I could write volumes.
I am David

By: Penney Dison

Penney Dison — Fri, 08 Jun 2012 16:17:24 +0000

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By: David Domincki

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By: nikita smith

nikita smith — Wed, 18 Apr 2012 11:53:38 +0000

Okay, why don’t you compare the USA with other countries around the world to see how well you are all fairing.

In Canada, Abortions are 100% legal (and the government will pay for low income women to have an abortion)

We also have the same divorce rate as America.

AND unlike the USA, Abstinence only education is illegal in our schools (only comprhensive sexual education is taught)

We have a lower crime rate than the United states.

(Although, our gun laws also have something to do with that. Here, the laws are stricter. You are not allowed to carry a gun on you. It must be locked, in a case, without ammunition in it, regardless of whether it is a hand gun or a hunting rifle)

We have a lower teen pregnancy rate then the USA.

We have a lower STD rate than the USA.

AND we have a the lowest rate of women performing unsafe abortions in the world.

The problem has nothing to do with Sex, Abortion, or single mothers.

It has to do with your government, it’s policies, and how they stigmatize these things as being the ‘proponents of your countries collapse’ when really, getting the religion and ideology out of your politics, and having a government that will be realistic in terms of these issues is what you need.

Your government tells you that sex, abortion and single motherhood is the problem, but that is only your governments unwillingness to step up and deal with these issues.

Look at Denmark or Sweden for example. All of these things I have talked about in regards to Canada also applies to many European countries as well, and they also (respectively) have lower crime rates than the USA.

By: Sharon

Sharon — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 22:42:04 +0000

I am a single mother. My son is now 11 and in honors. I bought my own home after financially struggling for several years trying to cover the cost of day care so I could go to work to provide for myself and my son.(which nearly put me in debt) Maybe the real benefit of marriage is having a dual income family, because trying to make it on one income today is nearly impossible.
Out of wed lock pregnancy’s will continue. How about more emotional support, mentoring etc to assist the hard working tax paying contributing mothers who are juggling to do it all alone.
Those of us that do it well, well, finding a SUITABLE partner is not on the radar as having the time or extra funds for additioanl day care to have time for ourselves is not realistic. (unless of course you’re fortunate to live near family or close friends who understand and are wlling to help)
My son is a Boy Scout, a caring, responsible boy who lives in a happy stable home, thank you very much.

By: mojo

mojo — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 09:12:31 +0000

As a single mother of three boys, I do know i didn’t ask to be a single mother and truly believe i made the choice to have them and i will care for the life i created ( unlike there father) (guess i was the only one who was involved ) Anyway i do know i tried my best to raise them right, However i also know as my oldest was about 10 the government gave the children more rights then the parents and with that how is any single family suppose to raise there children correctly… really parents cant even go into the doctor room with their child (as of age 13 ) if that child dont want you too, but yet who pays that insurances premium every month? And kids can tell the doctor anything and the doctor cant tell you what they talked about.And you say kids are the way they are because of single mother parenting.. well im not so sure about that…

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 08:01:56 +0000

I am dating a single never married mom of three older boys. Her opinion is clearly stated that her children come first. This opinion is embraced by a lot of single mothers. This also is the downfall. In a family especially one where two adults (man and woman) are in cohabitation placing children first undermines the support the man can instill. It effectively neutralizes what could be his beneficial cooperative parenting. The problem is that a lot of these types of mothers want to engage in relationships but are afraid to share the responsibility with the other adult because they feel they owe that to their kids. They try to protect their kids and defend them from the other adult. (In my case, I have two kids of my own who visit. This mother doesn’t see the harm she does when she doesn’t let me co-parent her children with her.) Single moms do not realize or simply refuses to admit that by doing that they are demonstrating negative attitudes to her kids. The kids see and come to believe that they are above other authority figures. They learn that they can get their way and they start interacting with society in the same manner that has been demonstrated in the home. Then the mom wonders why her kids wont listen to her, when she wouldn’t accept the willing and necessarily help to get that desirable result. These children act out. In my situation, I would point out to MOM that they (the kids) have all the benefits of a paying member of the household with absolutely none of the responsibility. Cable TV in their rooms, Unlimited access to anything in the kitchen at any time. Unlimited access to the internet anytime. Pretty much anything they have asked for they receive regardless of attitude, grades or willingness to productively participate in household chores and family involvement. They already get everything and then some. So i suggest to start from scratch and remove these freedoms to get the children back on track That is the only way to get the desired result. Also (*as my situation goes) it does not help to be a paying adult and to be relegated to the status below the children, it is degrading and sends another message to the children that I am not an authority figure, which is totally ass backwards to what should be. The paying adults should be making the decisions, not the kids. The paying adults need to work together, not separately. The Slate should be wiped clean and the kids should be forced to earn their privileges. Many single mothers confuse these things with being a child’s right. Also, if a single mom has a male partner who is more than just a casual fling, then that man should take center stage in saying what goes on along side her, not her kids. Stop catering to the delinquent behavior of children by allowing them to rule and reign above the ones who provide support to them. It gives them unrealistic ideals which once they are turned out into society they are unprepared to deal with. They either re-learn real fast that everything they took for granted is now something they have to work for, or they slide down the slippery slope of despair and become yet another failed statistic.